Dear Fear,

It’s not you. It’s me.  No, really, it’s me.

We’ve had an interesting run and ultimately, it’s not going to work. Our dynamic sucks.  It’s time for me to take personal responsibility and take my power back. 

I have let you lead and control this relationship and it’s not healthy for me. It’s holding me back from my potential in life.  Not to mention, it’s not fair for you. I don’t want to be mean and hate you and wish you weren’t around.  It’s such a waste of energy!

And yes, I know what you’re thinking…you’re just trying to protect me. You want what you think is best for me.  You just want me to be safe.  And I appreciate that, truly.  The thing is, I want a hell of a lot more than that. 

I want deep happiness, I want to grow, I want to thrive, I want to create a business and legacy that impacts thousands, then millions, I want to...

You work, you run, you schedule, you focus, you strive - all for the ultimate goal…happiness, peace and fulfillment. 

Happiness.  Isn’t that what we all, deep down, are working toward?  

I can go on and on with tips of what to do to increase your happiness and joy.  Right now, let’s walk through the 3 things to stop doing to feel an instant shift in increased happiness, more peace and deeper fulfillment.  I know, I’m excited too!

The 3 Shifts to Happiness:

1.      NO MORE COMPARISON!  ‘Comparison-itus’ serves no one.   When you compare yourself or your life to that of someone else’s, you are in judgement.  Judgement is toxic and skews the way you see the world.  It’s that feeling of “look how perfect their life is” when you see a post on Facebook or “She’s so pretty and always has it so together” when you...